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Day 842

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Aug 19, 2009 by Dr. Vik

When things are...

Black and white, we figure it out.

But when things are "gray", we seem to put it off for later.

Can't blame us, we are all busy and have plenty to do, so when we have
to take extra time to figure it out - it gets shelved.

OK, can't put it away forever, we are not living in a black and
white world...maybe it's time for us to take just one of our items in our "gray
area" and bring it to understanding.

Just pick at the "gray" pile, little by little, and we can once again
have clarity.

Yours in "Little by Little" - Coach

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Day 465

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Aug 8, 2008 by Dr. Vik

When we make a Blame Sandwich...

We have to be prepared to eat it ourselves.

Yes, blame is our effort to put our perceptions of a situation
directly on another, but the real deal is that blame always comes from
us, and always boomerangs back at some point.

You see, blame is part of a problem or challenge and it simply perpetuates it, instead of helping to be part of the solution.

We all make mistakes, we know it, and so do they.

So forget blame and remember solution, for the solution is all that
counts.

Yours in Solutions - Coach

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Day 455

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Jul 29, 2008 by Dr. Vik

We all make Mistakes...

It's OK, we're human, but the deal is that we need to "own it".

Passing the buck, shifting the blame, and being the victim are all
really cute ideas but don't really handle the situation, although some
think they do.

Oh, and the masters of the one's who don't "own" their mistakes create
all sorts of drama in a weak attempt to divert attention somewhere else.

We need to all remember that mistakes happen - we need to just "own it"

  • apologize - learn from it, and move on - that's what Winners do.

Yours in "Owning it" - Coach

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