8 Posts are tagged with: control

Day 882

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Sep 28, 2009 by Dr. Vik

Whatever happens...

Control the outcome?

Yet since the only thing we control is ourselves, maybe we can be a bit
more specific and say...control the outcome and how it effects us.

Want to control the outcome in the stock market and not have it effect
us? Don't play.

Want to control the outcome of our friends that keep borrowing money? Don't lend.

Want to control the outcome and have everything to go smoothly? It
won't...so we go smoothly.

Any game we choose to be in, contains inherent risks, and if we want to
control the outcome, stay out of the game, otherwise the outcome will
effect us, one way or another - but sometimes the risk is worth the
reward.

Yours in "Controlling Your Outcome" - Coach

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Day 855

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Sep 1, 2009 by Dr. Vik

This sounds like You!

I will take control of my life...

Not by storm, but with gentle, yet firm nudging.

I will be paving my own road to match my Vision.

I am the favorite to win the game that I create.

I know others will help, but I will rely on myself.

I am powerful beyond measure - that's just how it is.

Yours in "You" - Coach

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Day 850

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Aug 27, 2009 by Dr. Vik

No one can really dictate...

The rain.

But we sure can be, the best umbrella.

With everything in our lives, we can only be in charge of ourselves...and
dictate what "we" do, and not other people or things.

In knowing this, we can be prepared to meet all kinds of
challenges, people and situations with grace.

So when we are faced with things that are not in our control, which is
everything...except ourselves...just like when it rains, we can respond
accordingly...and not get wet.

Yours in "Bring it" - Coach

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Day 773

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Jun 12, 2009 by Dr. Vik

Check out the name tag...

You're in my world now:)

We probably all would like to say it, but may be a bit over the top...but we can humbly feel it inside.

Not that we don't care about others...it just is a pretty good credo to
have as a mindset which put us fully in control and ready to "get
after" whatever we want to "get after".

I bet Tiger Woods feels that way when he walks onto the golf course.

Yours in "Full Control" - Coach

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Day 763

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Jun 2, 2009 by Dr. Vik

Peoples decisions are based on...

Their beliefs.

Since what we believe, is a base for our decisions, we can
understand that our decisions create our actions, and our actions
create our future.

So what are our beliefs about our lives and our future?

Our we believing our lives and future is not that good, or great?

Do we believe we are not in control, or in control?

Do we believe we are worthy of a great life or not worthy?

These question may seem silly, but it all starts with our beliefs and
ends with our future.

Yours in "Believe in You" - Coach

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Day 687

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Mar 18, 2009 by Dr. Vik

Remember when your parents...

And teachers used to gain a little control by letting you know that you
have to behave...even when they are not looking at you, because they say they have
eyes in the back of their head?

Well, we know that's not the case, because we were not born with eyes
in the back of our head.

Maybe that's because we we are supposed to look forward in our lives
and not backwards?

Yours in "Looking Straight Ahead" - Coach

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Day 598

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Dec 19, 2008 by Dr. Vik

People's decisions are based on...

Their beliefs.

Therefore, since what we believe, is a base for our decisions, we can
understand that our decisions create our actions, and our actions
create our future.

So what are our beliefs about our future?

Our we believing our lives and future is not that good, or great?

Do we believe we are not in control, or in control?

Do we believe we are worthy of a great life, or not worthy?

These question may seem silly, but it all starts with our beliefs and
ends with our future.

Yours in "Believe in You" - Coach

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Day 569

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Nov 20, 2008 by Dr. Vik

Some of us run away from...

Success and some of us Run away from Failure.

In either case, we are running away from something which puts us in the
position of reacting, and not in control.

Why not Run towards something...then we are responding and it allows us
to be the one in control.

Yours in Perspective - Coach

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