6 Posts are tagged with: ourselves

Day 938

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Nov 23, 2009 by Dr. Vik

There is only one...True Success.

And that is to spend your life, in your own way.

Sound corny or unreachable? Maybe at first, but what is means, is that
we first align ourselves with our passion.

That's the stumble point for most: "How can I make a living lying on
the couch, or playing video games, or just hanging out?"

The second part clarifies: we then align our passion with a beneficial
Vision, other than ourselves...like having your passion helping out
individuals, pets, the world - just pick it.

Once we are aligned with our passion "plus" our Vision, we will be
spending our life...our way...while helping others.

Yours in "Trust" - Coach

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Day 882

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Sep 28, 2009 by Dr. Vik

Whatever happens...

Control the outcome?

Yet since the only thing we control is ourselves, maybe we can be a bit
more specific and say...control the outcome and how it effects us.

Want to control the outcome in the stock market and not have it effect
us? Don't play.

Want to control the outcome of our friends that keep borrowing money? Don't lend.

Want to control the outcome and have everything to go smoothly? It
won't...so we go smoothly.

Any game we choose to be in, contains inherent risks, and if we want to
control the outcome, stay out of the game, otherwise the outcome will
effect us, one way or another - but sometimes the risk is worth the
reward.

Yours in "Controlling Your Outcome" - Coach

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Day 829

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Aug 6, 2009 by Dr. Vik

It's never a waste of time...

Or energy, when we choose to grow.

Growth always needs something, and when it comes to us...our best investment for growth is our time and energy.

If we choose to grow and give nothing, what we choose, will wither away.

So let's not cheat ourselves, for what we invest in, is an investment in our future.

Yours in "Growth" - Coach

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Day 784

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Jun 23, 2009 by Dr. Vik

Why is it...

We tend to only schedule our headaches?

With "To do" lists..."To do" this, "To do" that:

Pick up the laundry, go shopping, clean the toilets, mow the lawn, go
to work, gut the garage, buy the present, finish the chores...not a lot
of love there.

We need to spin it, and schedule time to "Do to" ourselves and
others...that's where the love is, whether we are in a relationship or
bliss - we need to make the time.

We are going to "to do" until we're done, so we better "do to" before we are.

Yours in "Do to" - Coach

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Day 723

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Apr 23, 2009 by Dr. Vik

The Things I Do...

The things we do are graded not only by ourselves but others as well.

What are the things you do that make a great and positive impact on
your life as well as the life of others?

Is it the way you listen to others...the way you make people feel about
themselves, or maybe it is what you do on a consistent basis that makes
the world turn a little sweeter?

Only you know...and it's pretty nice when you can proudly say to yourself at
the end of the day, after you brighten up the world around you...

"The Things I Do"...

Yours in "You" - Coach

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Day 583

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Dec 4, 2008 by Dr. Vik

Some people have a hard time...

Helping themselves, and that's usually because they have some combination
of past baggage, poor self talk or poor self esteem, all of which help
form our thoughts

And that's OK. Those are the 3 things we all need to deal with on a
consistent basis in our quest for getting...and keeping "Our Minds
Right".

If you have a hard time helping yourself out, for whatever reason, just
take the position of helping out others - Because in helping others, we
can feel better about ourselves, which is paramount in helping
ourselves out.

So take others to the "Next Level"

You couldn't be more help if you were a crutch.

Yours in taking it to the "Next Level" - Coach

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