If you are in a Hole...

Stop digging.

We all get into a hole, once in a while, but hashing and re-hashing why
we got into it, or how bad it feels to be in it, gets us nowhere.

We need to change our thoughts into...how to get out of our Hole.
Simple as
that...just "spin" our thoughts and focus towards the solution and not
the challenge.

And soon enough, with a bit pf persistence, the dirt starts to fly back
in, and we start to rise out of our hole.

Remember - you dug it, you need to fill it back in.

Yours in "Shovel time" - Coach

Whenever we get into a "Pickle"...

It's usually our ego that's to blame.

In most situations where we have difficulties with others, it is
our ego, which promotes subjectivity to come into play.

When we are "outside" of another's challenges, looking in, we can
usually see the situation without the ego, objectively, as we are not
part of the challenge. And by seeing it this way...a solution is clear.

So when we get ourselves in a "pickle" with the help of our ego, we
may just want to step back objectively and come up with an objective
solution.

Yours in "An Easy Fix" - Coach

I've had the Pleasure of...

Having a chat with many who have shared their challenges with me.

A common thread that weaves through most all of the conversations is that
the people all have been intently focusing on the challenges in their
lives.

They have "Spun it and Won it" by redirecting their focus on What is
good in their lives, or on a Solution, instead of their focusing on
their challenges.

Yours in Simple, but it works - Coach

When we make a Blame Sandwich...

We have to be prepared to eat it ourselves.

Yes, blame is our effort to put our perceptions of a situation
directly on another, but the real deal is that blame always comes from
us, and always boomerangs back at some point.

You see, blame is part of a problem or challenge and it simply perpetuates it, instead of helping to be part of the solution.

We all make mistakes, we know it, and so do they.

So forget blame and remember solution, for the solution is all that
counts.

Yours in Solutions - Coach

The Most Seasoned...

Professionals have one thing in common...they can handle
adversity in stride.

The True Professional can take anything which comes into their work or personal lives, that may distract them
from their plans, and quickly go to plan "B" while working on a Solution
instead of grinding to a standstill.

It takes a little multi-tasking, but that's what makes the Successful,
Successful.

Yours in Success - Coach