Anyone who claims that names don't matter has forgotten the trials of elementary school.
Inevitably, there was one child with a name that seemed made for torment and teasing.
For example, you may have had a sixth grade friend named Pearl ... and her last name was Button. And then there are parents who adopt celebrities' often peculiar baby name choices, or upon seeing their first glimpse of their completely bald son was born bald, parents might decide to name him Baldy.
For pregnant women, trying to decide what to name their baby is often filled with input from well meaning friends and family. There's always the in-law who says hopefully, "I'd love it if you named your baby after me." Your husband probably has his own views. And then, of course, there's the trend with celebrities to come up with unique baby names.
To ease the naming process, consider these tips:
Remember the importance of middle names. Choose a combination of first and middle names that go well together.
Consider the pros and cons of naming your child after a relative or friend (for example, you'll probably delight that individual while annoying others).
Evaluate the implications of acronyms for the first, middle and last names that you consider (would YOU want to go through life with the initials U.G.H.?).
In addition, beware of the "Name That Baby" party that's become fashionable. Typically arranged by a well meaning friend or relative, these gatherings are similar to baby showers with one major difference: the primary entertainment consists of guests coming up with suggestions for names for your baby.
The parties usually include a pink and blue beribboned room and the traditional fluffy cake decorated with miniature cribs and rattles. But the party games consist of playing a "name the baby" contest, and it's your baby who is supposed to be named.
Recommendation: be prepared. If you discover that what you thought was a standard baby shower party is a peculiar twist on Name That Tune, just nod, smile and say that you'll discuss all the suggestions with your spouse. In other words, take the gifts, write the thank you cards and don't risk having your child be nominated to a member of the Weird Baby Name Club.