Unless you are among the elite triathletes in the world, you probably approach the sport with goals and desires that do not revolve around winning. Instead, in all likelihood, you started the sport to challenge yourself, to prove something to yourself, to replace other sports you can no longer compete in, or to simply stay involved in a competitive manner. If so, then we all must admit that we train for different yet similar reasons, and, although we will go about our daily workouts differently, two very distinct commonalities do, and must, exist.

First, we each have a disciplined approach that seeks to get the most from our training. Whether we create a schedule based on what we want or we follow a delineated breakdown borrowed from someone more experienced, each of us has a daily goal designed to get us to the end. The work rate we invest begins as a struggle but will quickly alter into an addiction, once we see and feel the results of our efforts. Thus, we portion off a small piece, although how small varies person to person, of our lives to this sport, and within that time period we push and drive ourselves like we never have before.

Yet, despite our greatest desires to succeed, we all must realize the power of reality, which brings about the second, although slightly contradictory, commonality. Within the discipline rests a guilt that can eat a triathlete up: letting life happen instead of training. Many people experience an overwhelming sense of guilt if they eat wrong or miss a workout. Nothing could be more detrimental to your mental training stability than permitting yourself to feel this guilt. Life will happen, sicknesses will occur, so understand that although you see training as imperative, other parts of life have more value.

In the end, train really hard, but live life too. If you miss a workout, move on and don't try to compensate. Let your world continue because triathlon is about improving life and self-esteem, not making it more difficult and stressful. Relax and enjoy a sport than can change who you are.